I like to compliment others in such a way that it also lifts me up too. Instead of saying: “I like your hair, I wish I had your hair,” I try to think, “I really like your hair – and I like mine too!” And even as I am a sursum corda for someone else, I am, too, built up instead of tearing myself down. – Angela M.
Discerning is really valuable when you’re looking to lift up your heart, but not looking for “what I’m going to get out of this”, but rather seeking to lift my heart into the heart of God, to fit my heart into his, in order to discover and surrender myself totally to his will for me and my life. – Adriana M.